A sidenote to single women who can’t find decent guys
Usually this section covers the topic of being a man, but today I’m jumping on the other side of the War of the Sexes. I’d say my ratio of male to female friends is around 50/50. Most of...
What to do on a night when you have nothing to do: restaurant reviews
It’s Wednesday night, and you’re bored. Maybe you don’t have a list of girls to ask out, or maybe you asked someone out and got shot down, either way, you’re needing something...
No, we can’t: why teamwork is a bad idea
Los Angeles, CA By A.B. Dada — I hate the idea of teamwork. In high school, a teacher used to tell me “There is no I in team,” to which I replied “That’s why I’m not...
The Art of using Deception in Dating
I’ll get e-mails regularly by women who think that my views on being a man in dating are deceptive. They’re right. I advocate many different deceptive techniques to enhance your chance of meeting a...
Don’t let her ruin your good time.
I remember my first encounter when a relationship blew up; I was hanging out with a guy who was dating what I considered a fantastic gal (beautiful, smart, and usually funny), and she happened to be there....
Dealing with insecurities: a growing problem
In the past 4 weeks, I’ve had not one, not two, not even three but four guy friends “challenge” me with trying to find a solution with a common problem they’re all having: how to deal with the...
Are all women the same?
Since rebirthing this site, I’ve started to receive more e-mails than ever before — thanks to StumbleUpon and other collaborative networks. I appreciate all your e-mails and questions, and even your...
5 Reasons Not to Lie to a Woman
A few weeks back I was out with a friend of my brother’s, and he happened to be hitting on a cute gal he just met in a bar. I casually listened in to his conversation with her and made a bet with myself...
Letter from a Reader: How to not be a creep?
Back in January, I received the following e-mail from a reader who wanted to delve deeper in gaining the eye of a woman they’re interested in — especially one they meet when they’re out in public,...
You’ve been friends a long time, why won’t she date you?
It is lately the most popular search topic that finds this site — and one of the most common questions I get asked by men I know who just can’t seem to convert a girl they like into a girl who likes...
Be A Man Q&A: Do short guys have problems dating?
It’s a common question, and also a very common search phrase at Google — do short guys have a problem dating? It would seem so, according to some statistical websites, such as the Short Person Support...
Why Men Marry Bitches
I couldn’t believe it until I actually went and picked up a copy. Sales ranking today at #535 at Amazon is a book that is being vacuumed up by thousands and thousands of modern women, and most men stare...
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 5
The fifth step to building confidence rolls up all previous 4 steps and adds a little part to them. You’re going to have to practice all 4 steps together for the fifth step to be profitable for you if...
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 4
One of the biggest reasons for a lack of confidence that many men face comes from their lack of self esteem. I think I’ve seen it all (and probably have felt it, too) when it comes to the various reasons...
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 3
There’s something odd about some unconfident men in the way they act — they’re shy, but when they do speak they’ll blurt out words or jokes or thoughts that really aren’t topical to the discussion,...
5-Steps to building confidence, Part 2
Learning to talk to women of all sizes and ages is just part of building confidence — something that will help you in more than just love, but also in business, in friendships, and in dealing with people...
5 Steps to Building Confidence, Step 1
If you don’t have a girlfriend and seem to have problems getting one, if you often hear that she just wants to be friends, if you have trouble just talking to a woman you’re attracted to, the basic...
What if you don’t have the woman, yet?
A reader, RS from just outside of Cleveland, OH, sent me this e-mail: I’m starting to understand what to do when I have a girl, but what do I do to get the girl? You don’t really go into those details....
Going Dutch
This last week of traveling has put me in various restaurants, hotel bars and social events as it usually does. It is always a great time to watch other men succeeding and failing in their relationships....
Beautiful words to say to a woman you’re dating
You’re beautiful. You look great in that dress. You’re the best. I love you. I can’t believe I’m with a woman like you. Read this entire article at the Be a Man site. Read More →
